Yes, the DB coach was great. He had alot of encouraging words for me and put together an impressive game plan going forward.
This evening was very fun for me. It started out at the kids' school where they had their Halloween costume parade. My D3 was a lady bug and my S5 was Iron Man...they were adorable. My W arrived at the school just in time for the parade. I arrived early and took a surplus of snapshots.
Then it was off to the zoo for trick-or-treating. As we were all about to jump onto the expressway, my W turned to me and asked to go back home. You see, she had a rough day at work (and house-hunting?) and the kids were simply being kids in the car. I said "o.k... no problem." I dropped her off and went out with the kids. The zoo was literally and metaphorically a zoo. It didn't matter because the kids and I had a great time. My wife's mood was not going to affect mine.
Sandi...no I'm not going to let the pressure build this time around. If my wife goes to the post-session this Sunday...then fine. If she decides not to go...fine again. After several phone calls with family and friends over the last 24 hours, I've realized that I have been trying to save a marriage in which I was unhappy. That's just plain crazy...the conversations were the 2x4s I needed. My kids are my only concern going forward...not my wife's moods, emotions, actions, or feelings. Atleast this is my current state of mind.
Kind Regards, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
