You do, sweetie. But keep trying. You'll get where you want to be. I think it would be best, though, if you were not the one to inform her that you're with a date. Speaking as a WAW myself, I believe it would have much more impact for her to hear it from another source.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
