She is leaving me. We have met several families while on vacation that go away after a divorce. I can't predict the future, but it's possible we would do the same. What happens in the next year and how my wife and I handle it will decide that.
As for when one of has found someone else, that will change things, since that relationship will be a priority. And by then my kids will likely have their own lives and own plans for holidays.
I'm not doing what I think is best for my relationship with my wife. I am doing what I think is best for everyone right now.
