I also mentioned that I'll be in Houston for Thanksgiving, and didn't say anything more. She gave me some advice to not just show up without providing anything, and I thanked her for that. It feels like a slap, but this is just how W operates.

W has a month now to bring it back up if she wants to. Last year she was so tired of her family after SIL's wedding that she wanted to just spend Thanksgiving with me. That seems like so long ago. Oh well, we'll see.

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK