What to do when H doesn't contact?

[jon2911]

Goodfight,
It's a lot easier to talk like this than do it. Keep it up!

After W's surprise visit today, I realized how much I'm still doing for her, not for God. It feels like she's still in control of so much of my life, my happiness, my future. I'm trying to remember that she's not.

For the holidays, let's come up with a way to quickly mention it and leave it up to your H to respond. For me, this was mentioning that I'll be in Houston for Thanksgiving, and not saying anything more. W has a month now to bring it back up if she wants to. No pressure.