Hi Oz, Sorry to read of the little glitch here. H needs some space I guess. I go along with the others and say let him go graciously. Hopefully, with space he will be able to explain his concerns more fully. The problem may not even be the sex, just the reason he has given for the concerns he feels at the moment. It would be part of this transition. While he's away what will you do? Where will you go? Don't sit at home
