B/H I am not a doormat ....I am my own person I support myself and my daughter...times are tough and money is short but I have found I can do it on my own.You said
"The people here who are passive and don't draw the line end up being used as door mats."
If and when he sees what he has lost and the damage he has done it will be up to me whether he can return not his.He will have to do lots his own work...I am doing it on my own and I have grown in so many ways.
I beleive that a marriage is until death ,but I am not just sitting here waiting for his phone call or his return Only God knows when that is. As far as being passive what is wrong with that????
The word of God in Ephesians says we are to love one another, and to forgive......believe it or not I have peace in my heart that I know comes from God I have forgiven them both...they both live together right now......but until I forgave them I had no peace....no confidence in me and now I have it and it is due to God's grace...believe me I could of caused lots of damage to them and her left behind children she has left but where would of that gotten be but jail time and an embaressment to my family.... 2 wrongs don't make a right...... I am very offended you called us so called "passive people" DOOR MATS....you know nothing about me......and maybe this is the kind of reaction you wanted but I am happy with my life as it is right now and that is due to God's mercy and his grace..... I have pity party moments at times and come here and post but that doesnt mean I am a Door Mat......how dare you!!!
