Sad To Be Back 4 Years After The Bust

[TrentC]

Rob I am finally back on track with you....except for the trip thing.

It is our family XMAS tradition with our kids. Would you honestly take your kids away from their mother at XMAS and at the same time remove their mother from their annual vacation?

Who is leaving who? Is she leaving you or are you leaving her? Are you going to take her on your family holiday outings when and if you split up for good? What about when you've found someone else (or she has)?

You may, but I won't, knowing how much it means to them.

Let's just agree to disagree on this one and the money thing which is already done, and move on. Even if they are "wrong", 2 things are going to be the ultimate in final outcome.

I'm on board.

Well, ya gotta do what you think is best for your relationship. And I'll support your right to try.

Just don't be surprised if you come back to tell us what a disaster the trip was and we say "we tried to tell you..."