stu you need to act "as if" you expect it just to be a pleasant evening, wear you ring if you feel comfortable with that, my H took his off too but its just them making a point, what ever you do just make tonight a pleasant evening, treat her courtesly as you would taking someone out on a first date, dont overstep her boundaries so no invading her personal space unless she reaches out to you! Try and relax and no relationship talk, just be calm, happy, sassy and a bit sexy but not pursuing, just keep showing her what she has thrown away. You mention earlier that you have no choice but to give her a divorce, one thing you do have is choice at the moment, and you dont want to offer her options she may just take up.. Hope the evening goes well but try and get on here and read more of the threads, especially those about doing 180's and GAL. Will be thinking of you.

Last edited by Lost Rabbit; 10/30/09 10:56 PM.
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