Strange creatures these WAS. So W is going into city for one of her personal interest courses tonight. She has been doing this frequently since the bomb and usually gets home at 2-3 AM. I have evidence that she was at OM's house a few weeks ago after her last course. So I had done some deep breathing this week and just accepted that tonight would be an OM night for her and I just needed to go out and GAL.
Fast forward to mid-day today and I get an email asking if I would like to come into city and meet her after her class for drinks (the first time she has ever asked me to meet her after a course). Needless to say I was shocked and called her and we made plans to do it even though she would get out relatively late. Right before she was leaving,she came to me and said that she was thinking that it maybe would be better to go into city tomorrow night together for dinner and drinks and for me not to come in tonight. At this point, starting to feel like a flag flapping around in the hurricane-force winds of the WAS. I told her OK but I was somewhat caught off guard by this and she noticed. She texted me after she left saying that she didn't want it to be too hectic for me trying to get in for a late night drink but that we could still do it if "it meant a lot to me". Texted back that I was just confused that she changed her mind and that I would go out and do something around here instead. She texted back and then called to say that maybe it would be fun if I came in tonight. I kept saying no, I can hang out here and she said maybe we could get dinner and drinks tonight. I finally told her that maybe I would just come in tonight since that was the original plan anyway.
My analysis:
- Maybe this is nothing and she was just confused as to which night it would be most fun and relaxing to go for dinner and drinks. Maybe she felt rushed trying to get out of work and to her class.
- Maybe OM was originally not available but suddenly found time in his schedule.
- Maybe W was trying to resist the temptation to see OM and to try to see if we could have fun together instead and she waivered.
