Over time, it is not healthy to love someone who doesn't love you back or respect you. That is NOT unconditional love; it's being a doormat AND OR being a victim and staying stuck in crazy patterns refusing to change b/c the unknown is somehow more frightening.
I just can't resist on this one. I'm sure someone will probably be irked about this. But, didn't someone who died on the cross for us love us unconditionally even though many have not loved him and respected him?
Kevin
Yeah, I think there is a little difference between the Son of God and the rest of us. I don't think it's a valid comparison. He gave His life to save the world and mankind...that's quite different than holding on to someone that doesn't want you anymore, or loving and respecting someone over the long haul who basically despises you.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
