Think youve probably worn the poor old thing out lol! No sorry I know its not a laughing matter. Dont panic allow him some thinking time, and dont get all upset about him going away again, being gracious about not getting huffy about his man time will earn you brownie points..
Just out of interest does sex just happen, sorta impromptu or are you making plans a bit. Sorry if thats a bit to personal, but at the moment from my POV I am making things naughty and sassy so my H wants to come back, just wondered if next time youre in the mood, plan something a little more low key, take time for him, a nice massage and even let it go if he ends up snoozing instead of making love!
Perhaps hes getting worried that hes not making it exciting enough for you and being the worry wart he is wondering if youre gonna look else where!
Dont know if that helps at all but the most important thing is just to stay calm about it all. Sex is embarrassing to talk about for most of us so give him time and let him know your open to talking about his needs.
Huge hugs as this must be the first spanner in the works so to speak.
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