I am sorry to hijack your post but I feel as part of this thread is like mine. lately I have not asked him to sleep in our bed..our 5 year old is currently sleeping with me..he wants me to lay with him on the couch but then tells me to go upstairs..I am not pursuing which is why I am not telling him I miss it. I do not nag, bit**, complain, bring up anything concering my x-friend that he was supposedly in an A with 3 years ago and not sure if they still talk, I keep the house clean, cook him dinner, I have lost 50+lbs, I support him in what he wants to do in life...what more can I do? really? If you read my thread..h is an alcoholic, in April he left his job to go to Law school which did not work out..he now hates his job and blames me for not getting to go to law school. I encourage him to find his passion, go back to school. I really am NOW..not then a good wife..but I am not sure he will ever forgive me or as he says..trust me again..which is bs...I am not responsible for his life
