My son called her this morning to say "good morning". She didn't ask to speak to me. So I called back and wished her "Happy Anniversary". She said thanks and "Happy Anniversary back at you".
Out of curiosity, why did you call her to wish her a happy anniversary? She could have asked to speak to you if she wanted.
Instead, you reached out to her in a way that was definitely going to make both of you uncomfortable. So why do it?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement