This is a fantastic thread folks, keep the gems coming, I had my first detachment moment yesterday, I realised the amount of contact I was having with H was good for him, but was taking my ME time and GAL time away and that I was in fact becoming needy again, so I am taking back control and having my own time, as it will make me more attractive and interesting during the time I spend with him. Detaching is for my benefit! He is having a bad time at the moment but that doesnt mean that it has to have an effect on me, he's welcome to my validation about how bad it is but I dont have to let his weather rain on my parade!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
