Hi all

Need some urgent advice. H appears to be backsliding a bit. Out of the blue yesterday I get a text saying he is funny about doing sex games (earlier in the thread, we started doing some role playing etc when we got back together), he kept encouraging all of this and then wanted to know fantasies I might have etc, you get the picture.

Now he says it isn't for him and he has gone all strange and quiet again, now sends me a text that he is going away jet skiing tomorrow but leaving this afternoon. Says he needs think time.

I explained to him yesterday, that I don't need sex games etc etc to enjoy ML, he accepted this, but he is still funny.

What do I do, do I just leave him be, I think he feels too that because he gets tired a lot from work he does not feel like sex a lot and seems to think I need it all the time (not true)and this appears to get him down.

Any urgent advice on how to handle this would be greatly appreciated.



Trying to keep hope alive