Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
Okay, he has texted me, called me, or emailed me about all sorts of random stuff. How do I go NC with someone who is constantly talking to me.


Texts and emails can be answered much later with "Sorry, I was busy." If he calls but doesn't have a reason to be calling, let him know that you have to go and hang up.

Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
Also, I mentioned that I told a few people he was gone, now he is asking who I told. Why does he care?


Because he's being forced to face the reality of his actions and how it affects the people around him (not just his family).


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."