So this morning, D again asked if I wished I hadn't yelled at "Mommy" b/c we'd still be together and I wouldn't have to miss going trick-or-treating w/her. D said that is what "mommy told me."
I explained to D again about how it takes two to make a marriage and two to break a marriage, but both her mother and I were equally at fault.
I e-mailed XW about it and she said she'd address it, but I'm not sure if this will really be done in the end. However, I can't control it, so it is fine, but I will make sure that every time this comes up, D will know that while I had my warts, I was only half of the blame for our divorce.
XW seems oblivious as to what D thinks and feels. XW doesn't think D picks up on what is said and how she reacts when it comes to me. To XW, if she doesn't say anything, then D will never know she's angry w/me, blames me, etc.
Complete rubbish. Kids are so perceptive. They pick up everything. My D is no exception.
