Am I at this stage?

[TrentC]

Trim, with some layers, and bangs. Gave me a little change, not very much though. But enough for me.

Sounds good. I got a haircut a week ago, but it was mostly cleaning up what I normally have.

I've been considering shaving my goatee & moustache -- something I haven't done since before I got married -- but I'm not sure yet. I guess it'll always grow back...

H called while at the hairdressers. Just to tell me what time he'd be by to pick up kids this afternoon. He is definitely flirting with me. I said something funny and he told me I make him laugh.

This is because your DBing is working. Just remember to make your boundary setting clear that it's not personal or mean-spirited. (But be prepared for him to blow up anyway.)

I'm trying not to read into it, but its so hard!

Believe me, I know. I think we all do.

H will be back tomorrow afternoon to spend Halloween together. Kinda nervous how to act. It will be our first "all" day time together. I have to make it good, so we'll see.

Happy but detached; treat him like an old friend you haven't seen in months.

If you need to, focus your affection on your kids.