Finishing up at work. Have kids so I don't have time to post much. Just wanted to get the fact I found proof of OM finally. Not sure if it's a long-term thing or not. I snooped, which I didn't want to do, but I figured out how to get on her FB page while I was over with kids after school.
Nothing posted about me. Looked in messages. She got a message last night at 10:56 p.m. from an OM asking if she wanted to get together with one of his friends and his friend's GF.
So there it is. Now six weeks ago I would have been devastated. I'm not happy, but I'm functional. I guess it just gives me more determination to get the process going and get myself the best deal possible.
Saturday night, after trick or treating, I'll send her the message that I'm lowering my bi-weekly payment. I don't care if it angers or "pushes" her to file.
From the "it's not over until you die" file. So what if there's an OM. Until she deals with her self-esteem and unhappiness issues, another guy is going to run into the same problems we did.
Back to finishing up work so I can focus on the girls.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
