If she wants to spend a Friday birthday with you, I think that is a good thing. She is probably testing the waters with you. Keep positive and reflect yourself a great guy.

Nobody I think is saying don't ever return phone calls. Just delay returning some of them. It keeps her wondering what you are doing in her mind.

The holidays are going to be tough. Accept it. Find a way to enjoy the holidays without her around. Surround yourself with family and friends. Do things you enjoy doing.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...