I won't say anything further on it. I just couldn't help but draw some kind of comparison there to the unconditional love comment. I disagree with the comment that unconditional love is nothing more than being a doormat and someone who is afraid to experiance life without that other person. I'm not saying that it isn't always used properly and sometimes it is a cover up for just being afraid to be alone. But it is also true in some cases that the person really does have unconditional love for the S that walked away. I would call that strength when it is truly the case.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...