Save my marriage to w she is moving on

[TrentC]

its been 4 weeks since w dropped the bomb that she is leaving. Its been two weeks on method last resort. To this point there has been no movement whatsoever. I continue to work on me and spend as much time with my kids. She just picked up the kids and as usually cant look me in the face. Is it cause she hates me so much or guilt?

There's no way to know. And DBing will take more than 2 weeks, unfortunately.

Some relationships get well into D proceedings before there's a turnaround; my parents were actually divorced for about 10 months, about 10 years ago.

If you are happy and upbeat every time she sees you, she will eventually come to see you as different from before the bomb. Bonus points for loving your kids and not disrespecting your wife in front of them.

If you can keep from pressuring her about R talk, she come get around to asking you what is up.