Although..I am further down the road than you and not in a good way. My waw is actually going to walk Dec 1st - well limp for that month and then walk (maybe even run) in January.
My wife is recovering nicely from surgery, and things seem to be at an impasse right now.
She's not talking about leaving per se, but there are definitely things we need to do (like joint MC!) if we're going to be able to rebuild this. The last time we had a R talk, she acknowledged this but wasn't sure when she'd be ready for MC.
She's still on the mend for another week or so, so I have plenty of time to work on myself while I wait...
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement