It is good to get a no nonsense perspective sometimes and great that it meshed already with where you were. Just hearing someone else say it helps.
Sorry that this is where you find yourself but only because it isn't what you wanted. There are better things around the corner, I promise. Lots of hugs,
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory