I'm having a hard time wanting to be her friend right now. Still feeling somewhat resentful. It's hard to be someone's "buddy" when they treat you like @!#$. I know I need to work through it, but that's what I am dealing with.
Being able to forgive and detach does not meaning that you must remain their friend, or best buddies.
Over time, your relationship may normalize around being the best parents you can for your son and being civil for his sake. That's not a bad thing.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement