I posted in the newcomers but needed advice

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I don't want to hijack this thread so a quick response. Your message is really inspiring about your family members getting back together after many years. Unfortunately my W and I have no ties other than my step-D.

But seriously try to visualize a happy life WITHOUT the spouse, and get detailed about it. Focus on that picture and move towards it and start feeling good about your future. It sends out great things to the world and you never know what might happen. It WON'T PUSH YOUR SPOUSE AWAY...I promise.

What you said above is something I have been trying to do. It's really hard to visualise a life without your S when you both had such big plans together but I am trying. It has only been 3 months. I need to get back to GALing properly (I let it fall away for a while).