First of all, I'm sorry to hear you are still in bed, but it is good to hear that you're just "sick" and not suffering miserably. You should be passing out of the "heavy" stuff soon.
My D is just fine now, but thanks for asking. She took something like TamaFlu and feels fine now. She stayed out of school for 2 days, but is back now and full of her usual energy.
It is interesting to read what you've discovered about BF and his depression and it is a very positive thing for you to be able to realize and verbalize (to yourself and the DB boards). Getting this out should help you as you continue to move forward as it gives you some clarity and a bit of grounding to keep you protected in case things go south again.
As for BF, I can only hope he gets help for himself b/c until he is better and starts to believe in himself, he'll never be able to be there for you. I'm learning this in my own sitch.
