25yearsmlc, you hit the nail on the head! Those people cannot and will not admit they are wrong! If they ever do admit wrong, its usually years later and its way too late. I have been preaching this for years on this site! You are one of the VERY FEW who have rebuilt your marriage. I haven't followed your situation, but I will bet you used tough love to do it. The people here who are passive and don't draw the line end up being used as door mats. Chances of reunion are slim under the best circumstances, but nearly impossible unless the LBS is tough. What people don't understand is these MLCer's will drag you along for years, using the LBS as a safety net.
