S4H,

Even though my H moved out only 2 months ago, I have felt alone in the marriage for about the last 2 years, other than a few good times, its has been very lonely. I too have thought about getting on match.com and meeting someone, as you said "It would be nice to have some companionship to go to dinner or a movie, some physical intimacy would be a bonus (hugs and kisses)"

These are things I really miss and want in my life. But when I think about starting the dating process or even a simple date, I get physically ill to my stomach. Guilt? Nerves? Anxiety? Probably all of it...

But how long do we put our lives on hold, especially not knowing what or if anything will every come of it?

I say go for it..why not..what have you got to lose! Enjoy yourself, be happy..maybe it will those things that make your W come back..if thats what you want!