Detachment

[pitinmygut]

One of the major reasons I have resentment towards her is because when I lost my job out in the eastern part of the state, she found that as a perfect opportunity to move us all the way to the western part of the state. I grew up in the eastern part and she grew up in the western part. About 2.5 hours driving distance.

I didn't like it one bit out there. I missed my family and friends too much, plus there really wasn't a lot of things to do.

I told I wasn't happy and we decided to move to a middle ground area. That was about 5 years ago. She became very attached to the new area, we opened up a new business for her and she was making a lot of good friends. I was up and down about my feelings about the area. I always had a strong draw back to the eastern part of the state.

About a year and half ago, I decided to go back to work full time (I was working on my own for several years, with a lot of ups and downs). My big mistake was looking for work out the eastern part of the state with hopes to moving back there. she was not happy about that. Looking back, I can see why.

I have been the type of person that can't be content with what he has. That is one thing I am trying to change now and I have actually become content in the town I am in, unfortunately, it came a bit too late. I just don't think me moving out that way again would be good.