Detachment

[TrentC]

are you willing to move to be close to her? That's a foundational question. If the answer is no, ask yourself what message that sends. Especially since the prior problem was you not making her feel as if she was #1 in your life. In other words, maybe she's right. If you can't move to be closer to her and your son...well, what does that say? I'm just asking. Think about it.
J-

This is true. Sometimes making a marriage work takes drastic measures. Maybe starting over in a new city is what you guys need. (Of course, the economy being what it is makes those kinds of moves difficult...)