New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Veronica,

Long time no hear. Great to hear from you. I sure do appreciate your nudge. I find myself preoccupied by what my W is thinking that at times I wonder if I'm doing the right thing. I believe I am just looking for reassurance that all is well in my mind and that I am not reacting the wrong way.

Thanks for your insight. I hope this finds you well. I'll try harder to refocus on myself and REALLY do it. It's hard stuff to apply after 16 months of separation. Sometimes I find myself asking questions, second guessing, doubting. In the midst of the "fog of war", it's sometimes difficult to see the clear picture and press on with DBing.

I keep telling myself I've worked hard to get to where I am today. Now is not the time to backslide...with or without my W.

Thanks again Veronica. it's good to have reminders and people to get me back on the right track. BTW, I now call my boys every other day, and they text me on the days when I don't call. I think we are communicating well throughout the week.

JR