Originally Posted By: sam_oc
I got all dressed up like I was going to a party. As we were concluding, my cell phone rang at the opportune time. I acted like I needed to be someplace else and hurried out while talking on my cell (it was just a friend calling).


Perfect - I have done this as well though I don't give explanations anymore and eventually you will get to this point.

It does all seem like a game at times and quite frankly a game I don't like playing at all.

Go to the party with her, have fun, enjoy the time with your S however avoid any marriage/getting back together talks...If she tries to bring it up, walk away - Don't let her draw you into her game...Remember you are in control of this "game"...That took me a very long time to get - To realize they (our spouses) don't hold the cards - We do.


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~