Am I at this stage?

[JAK58]

[/quote]Okay, Okay, okay. I get it! Geez.
I will go. If there is no R in the end I can't throw away my chances of having a social life. And if I give up these chances now, they are going to quit coming around in the future. So I'm going. Decision made. Not going to lie, there is a little fear in me that he will get upset because he assumes we will be spending the whole day together, but my goal from this second forward is not to worry about that. And go to the party for me. When I really think about it. He would do the same. thanks guy

October 29, 2009.

The day you took your LIFE back.[quote]

What Puppy said !!!!!!!!

JAK

[TrentC]

Remember you're giving me till monday morning...

Indeed I did.

[Lll54]

Well, party has been cancelled. There is too much flu going around here. So great. Now I have no plans. Not sure what I'm going to do now.

Just wondering if anybody has any tips to eliminated the sick, pit in my stomach that I have every morning when I wake up? I would really like to start eating some time soon again.

[TrentC]

Well, party has been cancelled. There is too much flu going around here. So great. Now I have no plans. Not sure what I'm going to do now.

That's too bad. Do any of them have alternate plans yet?

Just wondering if anybody has any tips to eliminated the sick, pit in my stomach that I have every morning when I wake up? I would really like to start eating some time soon again.

Talking it out helps. I have a couple of really good friends who are encouraging without being judgmental. I either call or text as needed. We are always here, of course; and my Yahoo alt email is on my profile.

And yeah, I dropped almost 30(!) pounds in the first month before I was able to pull myself together. And being out and active more is helping me keep it off, so I guess that's one positive thing to come out of this so far...

[K4D]

Just wondering if anybody has any tips to eliminated the sick, pit in my stomach that I have every morning when I wake up? I would really like to start eating some time soon again.

Excercise at least 45 minutes a day. Walk, run, bicycle, treadmill, etc. It will really improve your mood.

Kevin

[TrentC]

He's right: exercise will release endorphins into your system which will improve your mood.

[Lll54]

I have been. I workout religiously. Always have. Today I'm going for a haircut. Hope that helps lift me up. I'm sure it will as long as I she does a good job!

[TrentC]

What does your hair look like now? Going for a simple trim or a new look altogether?

[Lll54]

Trim, with some layers, and bangs. Gave me a little change, not very much though. But enough for me. H called while at the hairdressers. Just to tell me what time he'd be by to pick up kids this afternoon. He is definitely flirting with me. I said something funny and he told me I make him laugh. He also said this is the second day in a row that he hasn't been able to sleep off of night shift. He said he has a tummy ache, but not the "sick" kind. But he didn't elaborate, and I didn't ask. I'm trying not to read into it, but its so hard! Well off to work, H will be back tomorrow afternoon to spend Halloween together. Kinda nervous how to act. It will be our first "all" day time together. I have to make it good, so we'll see.

[TrentC]

Trim, with some layers, and bangs. Gave me a little change, not very much though. But enough for me.

Sounds good. I got a haircut a week ago, but it was mostly cleaning up what I normally have.

I've been considering shaving my goatee & moustache -- something I haven't done since before I got married -- but I'm not sure yet. I guess it'll always grow back...

H called while at the hairdressers. Just to tell me what time he'd be by to pick up kids this afternoon. He is definitely flirting with me. I said something funny and he told me I make him laugh.

This is because your DBing is working. Just remember to make your boundary setting clear that it's not personal or mean-spirited. (But be prepared for him to blow up anyway.)

I'm trying not to read into it, but its so hard!

Believe me, I know. I think we all do.

H will be back tomorrow afternoon to spend Halloween together. Kinda nervous how to act. It will be our first "all" day time together. I have to make it good, so we'll see.

Happy but detached; treat him like an old friend you haven't seen in months.

If you need to, focus your affection on your kids.