No babysitter. We'll probably do an early dinner or something before she goes and I'll hang out. I'll let her do her thing without me there and wish her luck.
But she shaved .... ????
Originally Posted By: notagoodlistener
I'm acting distant I think because I'm conflicted/confused with how much space I should give her. I also think that I'm a little hung up on the EA I suspected her of having and that definitely has shown through. I need to work on that. I feel like we are both giving eachother mixed signals so it makes it hard to read.
She is not directing you as to how much space she needs? I'd let the EA concern go until something pops up. I think you got DB'ed and it worked. and I think she is giving you the appropriate signals but you respond with distance and confusing behavior and she gets frustrated. sexual frustration perhaps.
Originally Posted By: notagoodlistener
She's so stubborn and will generally never admit to being wrong about anything.
yep.
Originally Posted By: notagoodlistener
I just have an uneasy feeling around her now. Like I don't know how to act and I don't want to pursue her affection and get shot down I guess. She said I have these short answers and I don't seem like I want to talk to her so she doesn't get it...I guess I am just having a hard time figuring out what she really needs/wants me to do.
just out of curosity how long have things been crummy, 4 and a half years, two years, 1, a couple months? How to act? how about a total 180 on all the behaviors she tells you is bothering her? you are very lucky she is willing to give this a shot. not alot of people here are in the same boat as you. She wants someone to listen to her, compliment her, flirt with her, dont we all?
