K4D Rising #4

[JTJ]

Kevin,

Here is a good practical exercise for you:

1) go out and buy a big pumpkin and write Kevin's marriage on it.

2)Review all your post and make a slash for everytime your wife has expressed to you that you were being pushy and controlling and any time you can admit that you were controlling and pushy without her telling you. Total all those times.

3) Find a nice big hammer and write kevin on it.

4) Take that total and hit that pupkin hard with that hammer for every time you've done that.

5) Take a picture when your done and hang it in your bath room mirror.

I think what Gucci did yesterday was perfect. Most abusers and controllers need a shock to the system so to speak to get them on the road to recovery. He saw what we all did. You still were not getting it. So he knew and we all knew what your wife would do. By your last statement above you still don't.