Hi:

Where do I find these tough love guru's. I have been reading a book by a Christian author Dr. Dobson and it's called "Love Must Be Tough" but so much of it has to do with infidelity. It has you writing a letter to the spouse that says that they can leave and wish them well. It releases them from the "cage" they think they are in but also says that you won't live like this. I'm not in THAT situation though so I'm not sure if that's the tact to take. Maybe this Gucci and Robx would be able to weigh in.

Do they post here? Where do i find them?

Thanks so much for the advice and point in the right direction!!

Gina B


M 43 H 34
D 4
H asked for D on 6/21/09:1st D mediation 7/27;D says he wants to try 8/18;
*I will stumble, I will fall down but I will not be moved.(N.Grant)