- Ask her why she thinks you should have a interest in finding her ring.
Don't rescue her - it's the wrong dynamic. If she wants help in finding the engagement ring you gave her as a sign of your love for her, let her ask for it like a big girl. You still have a choice in how you respond.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.