I was just wondering if GAL and showing them that you are OK and moving on with your life might make WAS think that the reason you are able to "easily" do this is because of the fact that you didn't really love them anyway
It is possible that they will feel that way. If they say something to that effect, you can reply with:
"I still love you very much and want to work this out. But our lives have to keep going while you [not "we"] figure out if this relationship is something you want."
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
