Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[mishka422]

Praying for you sweetie!

Of course, it's all just supposition at this point since he hasn't actually said he wants to come home. I'll hope for that outcome for you and your kids, but only if it's going to be best for you.

You are right to be concerned about his changes (or lack thereof). What actions would he have to show you before you allowed him home? What would you need to know?

You need to have boundaries and requirements of him before you go a step further, ok? Be very careful. Not so much for you, but for your kids. Your kids would most likely be devastated if he came home again and then left.