I was just wondering if GAL and showing them that you are OK and moving on with your life might make WAS think that the reason you are able to "easily" do this is because of the fact that you didn't really love them anyway
No, this is a misconception. GAL is for you to help you survive and learn how to enjoy your life on your own. This also is actually more attractive to your W because it shows her that you can stand on your own 2 feet and are not clingy and needy which drives them very far away. It also makes you a more interesting person to them because you do have a life that they might want to know more about.
Do not think of it as your W will think you never loved her. It makes you more of a man to have a life than not to have a life in her eyes.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
