One question about detachment that I am having trouble with. My W said that I did not express love enough and she found what she was looking for in an A. I don't want to validate this in any way because I firmly believe that I love her immensely and was just speaking the wrong love language.
You can express validation for her frustration ("You didn't express love enough for me") but not agree with what she did to find it.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
