This all has been a lesson in toleration for us. I believe that Robx and Gucci are correct that we must become walk-aways ourselves in order to lift the fog from our spouses.
Why do we stick it out? For me it's my S5 and D3...otherwise I wouldn't tolerate this nonsense. I take full responsibility for my actions leading to my W wanting a separation, but it really does take "two to tango" for a marriage to work or not work. Kara...deep down...what is the single most important reason your sticking this out? At what point to you give up?
And I think you should change your DB i.d. from kara to ruby. I like to think of myself as a diamond in the rough.
Kind Regards, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
