OK maybe you guys are clearing up a mystery for me...
[Btw Jeff since I marked you a 'favorite' it tells me your status whenever I look at my 'favorites' screen. Every day it has said you are active within 24 hours!]
Some times when I look at someones profile it says "IM Me now!" Other times it says "Not on IM right now", but still says "Online Now".
How do you know if your IM is on or not? I have never done anything to mine....I don't IM anywhere except on Match so I am confused by the whole thing...