Steve -- After she dropped my paying her legal costs, shaved 6 months off spousal support, and bought me some decent Bday gifts, I feel it would be stindgy to just have the kids do a card. For thanksgiving, her parents are taking her to Napa (while kids stay with me), so I thought of getting her a $40 gift card to the restaurant they're going to.
Whether its that or something else, I feel I should mirror the amount. My best friend thinks this may have been her tiny attempt to start being nice.
