Well, I finally bit the bullet and decided to pay for the reverse lookup for the cell phone # that I had questioned earlier. Really not much info to go on other than it is registered to an Indian name, so I am assuming that it is some sort of doctor/counseler. It is Boston (cambridge to be exact).
I think that she needed some sort of grief counseler or some sort of coaching to help her through the process of dropping the bomb on me. According to my cell records, she called the # just before she dropped the bomb and then several more times during the next few days and then nothing since.
PIMG,
Nice poem. It's the same one in my high school yearbook.
You have to get in the game. Right Freaking Now.
You need to get a lawyer, yesterday and get a separation agreement in place. This crap of taking your son and moving an hour away is pure entitlement and you cannot let this stand for any length of time.
Put a stop to it now. If you have to get an au paire/nanny to look after your son while you are at work then start making calls to find one and interview candidates. How old is he anyway? You mentioned schools - was he going to preschool?
Tell your lawyer what you want in terms of custody and figure out what needs to be done. You said you could work 4 days a week for a time being - good, do it. Can you also work virtually from home? Those options would allow you additional time with your son.
Your WAW doesn't respect you or any boundaries with respect to your relationship with your son. Have you been abusive at all? Is there any reason your W would take your son away?
Get moving, be decisive and take action to preserve your rights and your relationship with your son.
CABBR
M:49, W:47 M:22,T:23 S9, S6 W probable MLC Bomb: 4/09 In-house separation and Separate bedrooms since 4/09 EA busted: 7/09 W filed: 7/09 Kids unaware of D filing
