Feeling much better. Thank you for your words. It's such a roller coaster ride.

I really wish we lived closer too, the drinks and getting hit on would be just what the Dr ordered.

I did end up finding a MC yesterday. She is pro-marriage and has had some success with infidelity/issues like ours. She is familiar with MWD and solution based therapy. She said that whether our marriage survives or not, MC will ease the emotions. After all, with kids, H and I are stuck with each other forever. Our first appt is next Monday. I'm nervous and excited.

Do I act differently in MC? Do I DB?


Me 37
H 41
2-dd's (2,3)
T-14
M-10
D-Day 6/18/09 (MOW ended their brief "love" affair a few weeks later)
Separated- 7/3/09