This morning, W mentioned she again looked through all of the areas in her room for the engagement ring. She said she was trying not to freak out over it until we turn the house upsdie down looking for it this weekend.
We???? Really?????
Don't you have better things to do than try to find a engagement ring for a woman who doesn't want to be married to you? She'll spend time and energy looking for a thing but won't spend time or energy on her marriage. PFFFHHT! It's her problem. Legally, morally or ethically do you have any way to get that ring back for yourself? Her ring = her problem. Validate her problem but let her deal with it. Let her get used to dealing with things on her own. Don't you have a tee time in the morning? Go hit three buckets of balls, go workout, go ..... do something productive for you.
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I was 100% convinced W had put the ring away b/c she saw it as a sign of my love for her and/or a symbol of our M.
Mind reading falls under the category of cognitive distortion. Don't worry I am still dealing with snakes on the brain.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
