I was thinking today while I was mopping, and for those of you who are christian and believe God takes care of His children, I was thinking about divorce and after reading Clinging's sitch lately thought about financially what would happen with us. Everything is split based on its value. This summer we tried to refinance our house, but couldn't because the house was only valued in the low 80s while we paid 102 4 years ago and still owe 98. What is interesting is if this goes to divorce and everything is split 50/50. The house was appraised for way less than what it is probably worth due to the economy so I would come out much better because I am keeping the house and it is worth less. I didn't understand this summer when I was praying for the refinance why it didn't go through. I mean I really cannot afford this house on my own, but now I understand God was just looking into the future and knowing what I needed before I got there.

I just need to keep having faith that He has my life in His hands and will not let anything bad happen because I am His child. smile


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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